The art of choosing!

Hello my friends,

Whenever you wake up and feel troubled about anything or feel low because someone has belittled you in front of others, ridiculed you or even ignored you, take a deep breath and remember from the core of your heart that spirit sees you as perfect...in every way!

You are a magnificent human being whose life is so precious. Each of us is on a spiritual quest, whether we realise it or not, and this life quest takes us along many paths of our own choosing with the opportunity to meet friends and acquaintances, old and new, and to learn, love and laugh along the way. When you encounter anyone or anything along your path that makes you feel uncomfortable, then sharpen up in your awareness and think for yourself why you are feeling uncomfortable. Is it perhaps because you are unhappy about being in a particular person's company who is unappreciative or disrespectful of you? Is it because you feel you are being put in a position that does not feel true to your beliefs and choices that you want to make or is it for another reason?

Remember, that where each of us stands today is as a result of all of the choices we have made in our life to date. Sometimes when we look closely at where we are and what we are doing now, we receive a reality check that makes us feel that there is more to our precious life than we ever thought about before. Some individuals have an epiphany and realise that perhaps a career shift is required, or a change in personal relationships is necessary, or that a long forgotten childhood dream that was never fulfilled, resurfaces in one's mind and the inner drive to achieve this demands a change in future choices made. Often, thoughts occur to us that small changes could be made to make us feel happier. Perhaps a change in the type of food that you feel you want to eat occurs to you or an idea pops into your mind to go for a walk in nature or along the nearest beach instead of sitting in front of the television . Do not ignore your first intuitive thought! It may be a fleeting glimpse but it may be an important choice which leads you to inner peace, calm and happiness amidst these chaotic and challenging times! You cannot make a mistake when you make a choice about anything, because spirit sees you as perfect and so, take a good look in the mirror and learn to love yourself for who you are today. Trust and believe that you can make great choices for yourself and that you are the best person to make choices for yourself because you are one of a kind and know yourself better than any other person! 

Affirmations are wonderful ways to help you on your way. May I suggest the following affirmation for you today:

Everything works out better than I imagined!

As you become more aware of your feelings, you will slowly improve on the choices that you make for yourself. When you choose to live a life filled with joy, love and laughter and focus on making choices that give you this outcome, watch for subtle changes that may occur for the better. You may find, for example, that you are laughing more each day, you feel happier in yourself, you feel less anxious about issues, you make more time for spending with other friends and family members whose company you enjoy and who make you feel loved and respected too!

It all starts with that look in the mirror and the acceptance of who you are today. From this you can go at you own pace to improve the art of choosing what makes you happy! In as little as 3 seconds you can choose to change a situation/scenario that is not working for you and take a different life path! Only you can do this for YOU!

Wishing you eternal joy in your heart!

With love and gratitude,

Lady Wise ღ